12/29/2023 0 Comments Best candles for wax play![]() Many use paraffin and scented candles, which melt at between 46 and 68 degrees Celsius (115 and 154F). Choosing (or making) candles that are soy-based with a beeswax outer-shell is a great way to incorporate both types of burn. Soy is a nice choice for vegans and those with bee allergies and beeswax is good for everyone else. Mister K and I choose these two types of wax most of the time because they are naturally obtained. As well, keeping it at a consistent temperature will prevent the temperature fluctuations and decrease the risk of burns. This is one of those areas where dropping the wax from a little higher up, will allow the wax to cool as it descends to the body. The melting point of beeswax is a little hotter, at between 60 and 76 degrees Celsius (140-170F), and I’ve heard it said that it is too hot to use for play, but am of a different opinion. It formulated from soybeans and is a natural vegetable wax. ![]() Soy wax melts at the lowest temperature at between 46 and 57 degrees Celcius (114F – 134F), and cools quickly on the skin, making it an ideal choice for a night of fun. Some burn too hot and some contain chemical compounds that are not great for your body. There are numerous types of wax, but it’s important to know which ones are safe for human use. Make sure you cover the floor too, hot wax can be messy. We keep cotton rags on hand as well to help wash the wax away afterward. They come in many different colors too, if you’re looking for something to match a theme or for a photoshoot. Any wax that falls onto the plastic easily flakes off. Laying out towels is great, but I‘ve found that cheap plastic tablecloths are the easiest way to clean up. Make sure to prepare your area before playing as well. It relaxes the mind, stimulates the senses and is really a great way to start play. This is a trick I learned from a Domme, who has been in the lifestyle for 40 years! Mister K often uses this time to do a thorough massage. Coconut oil is rather inexpensive in comparison to argan oil or jojoba but works well in my experience. You can use any oil that sits on the skin for a bit before being fully absorbed. ![]() Not only does it smell great, but it also adds good moisture to my skin. It’s great for keeping the wax out of arm, leg and chest hair too. Think nape of the neck or the small patch of hair in the pubic region. Personally, I use coconut oil in place of my body lotion and make sure to rub it into areas with hair. It’s recommended that body hair be trimmed or shaved before wax play, as it can be difficult to get out. Preparing the skin is one thing that helps me, especially in areas with hair. Preparing the Sceneīefore using wax there are things you can do to help with clean up. I keep a little pouch in my aftercare bag for just this. Hopefully, you won’t have to use any of these things, but do yourself and your partner(s) a favor and keep these items on hand. This will make sure you don’t need to leave the room, or bottom if something goes wrong. Have some sunburn cream or aloe vera gel handy in the event that emergency aftercare is needed. Keep some water on hand to extinguish flames (if needed), or to cool burned skin. Safety should always be your first priority. I know it seems like a no-brainer, but it’s important. Keep candles and other wax melting implements away from fire hazards. Safety Firstīeing risk aware means that you’re prepared. Not all scenes involving wax will use flame, but some members of the community, like Mister K and myself, do choose to use real candles. Being aware of the risks is an important part of any play, but especially when using temperature and fire. Am I wrong? It takes a little more preparation than other forms of play but can be quite enjoyable if you do your research and follow safety guidelines. ![]() Oh, wax play! It’s warm, it’s sensual and candlelight is a bit romantic. ![]()
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